I appreciate this article, Luna. I just hit 100 followers myself, but I'm dropping by people who are doing interesting writing and committing to liking and following their work with active engagement.

In this particular piece, I like that you were judgement-free, which is tricky for a lot of people on this topic! It seems that a lot of women don't want to admit that they engage in this behavior until it's serious, because there are so many people out there accusing them of gold-digging or kink-shaming them. It's funny how the pursuit of "fair treatment" can become another kind of harassment. I love that you didn't do down that road!

If you want to check out some of my work and give me a follow, this is a recent piece I wrote:

https://medium.com/@nottheacademy/so-you-want-to-travel-in-2022-3a574ee4aed

Cheers!